if you can let go of others consideration of you, then you'll find yourself being you more often. now let's say you were bashed, hurt, or experienced a bad feeling caused by others. in the final analysis if it was a result of you being yourself, let's say you can live with that. you can be ok with it, even as it stings.
don't put on an act. go with you. if you go with you, then you really experience things, and you're alive. there's no better feeling than being alive. the price of being false is not being alive. not experiencing things. hidden we find nothing.
